LET FAVRE PLAY

If there is a guy who I think will play football until he dies, it's Brett Favre. At almost 40 years of age Brett his flirting with the chance to play his 17th season in the NFL. Sure mock him all you want for "retiring" and "un"-retiring, but we all know that wasn't a sincere retirement because it wasn't time for him to leave this sport that he loves. And one more thing, what's this garbage about him being a diva and leaving the Vikings hanging about the possibility of playin for them. I think Brett's performance throughout his career (and his gatrillion NFL records) proves that if he wants to weight his options a little bit then that's what he is going to do, he is NFL royalty. Not to mention the man is 39 and just coming off a shoulder surgery so leave him alone. If he wants to play for you (Minnesoda Vikings) you should be jumping for joy and wait patiently for him to make up his mind. It's not like the quarterbacks you have will get you anywhere anyways.

And how good would it be though for Favre to put on a Viking jersey and play in the same division as his former team The Green Bay Packers. That's two for sure high rated classic games on tap this year (if he plays for them of course). So...I'd say...Let him play.

LET VICK PLAY

Today is the official release date for Michael Vick from his dog fighting sentence. It is still unsure if Roger Goodell will lift his "suspension" from the NFL for his part in the dog fighting ring. For Mike Vick that part of his life is now in the past, it's no longer about the dog. He has served his sentence, paid his due for his wrong doings. Now it's time for him to get back to what he does best, back where he belongs, in a NFL jersey playing football.

Whether you are a Michael Vick supporter or not, you have to pull for this guy. Sure he was wrong, he shouldn't have done what he did, but he admitted to his mistakes and served his sentence. All he need is a chance to prove to everybody, he's changed. In my opinion I think America owes him at least a chance, because they praised him, loved him when he was at his best and they stomped him, left him when he was at his lowest. Through it all he has lost almost everything, his fans, fortune, reputation. But it's nothing he can't get back, can't build back, all he is missing is a chance. I assume now for Mike Vick it's no longer about the fans, the fortune, and his reputation. It's about accepting this new chapter of his life and getting back to playing football.

As for commissioner Roger Goodell, please reinstate Mike and give him a chance to be back in under the lights every Sunday night.

Kitchen Appliance Hypebeast

If you don't think such "person" exists well then you haven't met my mother. It just seems that ever since we moved in to this house 5 or 6 years ago she's been buying and buying a lot of random kitchen appliances. I swear the god we have at least 3 "multi-functional" rice cookers. That's not even it, we have a soup maker, a waffle maker, a "rediculously" non-stick pan, a magic bullet, a big ass (most industrial size) juicer, 2 george foreman grills, 2 blenders, 2 coffee makers and just recently a bread maker. This is just the starting line up, I haven't even looked downstairs in the basement for the retirement players yet. But damn ever since a few weeks ago when I lent my friend our waffle maker I noticed how many random kitchen appliance we have out in the kitchen. Am I crazy of is everybody's house like this. But forreal though they're all like her toys, she brings some new stuff every other week and makes a load of shit with it (depending on what it is of course).

R.I.P. Air McNair

I was skimming through my Tweetdeck when I came across a tweet from Kevin Durant that read "RIP Steve McNair". I thought my eyes were playing tricks on me as I literally rubbed my eyes to make sure I read it right. Then I proceed to check ESPN to confirm it, former NFL quarterback dead at 36.

Although the details surrounding his death is still being pieced together. Whatever happened the truth will come out. Aside from that, I am sure all NFL fans would agree with me that this was one of the best quarterbacks in NFL history. To me I will always remember him for his toughness of the field, his athleticism, his will, his drive and that he was inches away from winning a Super Bowl. He gave everything he had and more during his 13 year career. Words cannot express the amount of respect I have for him and the sadness I feel now that we lost another great one. RIP number 9.

Hey Bryan Colangelo!

In case you haven't noticed, there's this cool little tool over at ESPN.com titled "NBA Trade Machine" where wannabe GM's like me get to mess around with trade scenarios to see if they work within the NBA trade guidelines.

Now I know a lot of Raptor fans are bracing themselve's to the possibility of yet another franchise player skipping town. As of right now, the chances of Chris Bosh returning in Raptor red next season is very slim. Once again this franchise is littered with the "potential" tag, and that is simply not good enough to keep anybody around no matter, because in order for a player to make big time money (max contract) they have to earn it first by winning. Playing on a subpar or average team will not get you anywhere. So this creates a huge headache for everybody in Raptor land, what should they do with Chris Bosh?

My solution is simple, as simple as getting rid of Chris Bosh right now. Why? I had a conversation with a friend of mine the other day discussing this issue and how Chris will be demanding a max contract next summer (6 years 136 million dollars?) People familiar with the NBA know that you don't neccessarily have to be a "max" player in order to get paid like one. This leads to another question, is Chris a max player? In the NBA there are only a handfull (being real generous here) of deserving max contract players. LeBron James, Dwyane Wade, Kobe Bryant, Chris Paul, Tim Duncan, etc all carry lengthy resumes that includes MVPs, multiple playoff victories and of course for a few of them NBA championships. I know it's still too early to judge Chris Bosh's body of work in the NBA because he is only 25 years young which is far from the age when NBA stars reach their peak. No doubt he is talented, he's a winner, I respect what he has accomplished so far in his career. But this is literally a toss up, Chris is young, talented but injury prone and his production level has been the same the last three years and coincendentally his team failed to get far into the playoffs (missing it last year). The Raptors right now are a talented squad (even without Bosh) but they are littered with young players and if you count Shawn Marion the next player in terms of senority is Jake Voskuhl. This team lack the toughness and veterin leadership that a perenial playoff team has.

So with that said I found a team that should be a perfect fit on and off the court for our soon to be ex franchise player. Chris Bosh welcome to Houston Texas.

With the recent developments regarding Yao Ming's foot injury and it's implications. Knowing that this injury can be detrimental to the team's future, also the fact that it's hard to imagine the Rockets as the type of team that would fold under this type of situation and give up on the season. If Yao is out for the entire 09-10 season, there will be a huge hole in the middle for the Rockets to fill. Enter Chris Bosh, having the ability to play both the center and power forward spot I see Bosh as a perfect compliment for Luis Scola. Bosh's got the length and quickness that Scola lacks in low post defense. As a big men in the NBA Bosh is one of the best at running the floor. The Rockets equipped with one of the quickest guard in the league in Aaron Brooks and with Bosh they can finally play a faster pace that they couldn't with Yao in the lineup thus making their offense multi-dimensional. And do I have to really mention that Bosh is from Texas (although born in Dallas) being in the home state would be a huge confident booster.

In return the Raptors should take Shane Battier, Carl Landry and the contract of Brian Cook (waive him later to save money). This move could pay huge dividend for the Raptors, they get a proven and solid veterin player in Shane Battier, did I mention he's one of the best defenders in the league. Shane has the senority to mentor the flock of wing player/young players that we have on our roster. With Carl Landry we get another energy player, who can grab rebound in bunches. On paper, this may look like an unfair trade, but with the development of Andrea Bargnani, the rebounding machines in Reggie Evans and Carl Landry and the addition of Shane Battier. The Raptors are sure to improve in all of their weak areas in one fell swoop (scoring, defense, rebounding).

Win Win

Photoshop magic

I love to mess around with photoshop, I don't do it as much as I use to, before I would always have it open so I can play around with pictures. Nowadays I only use it when I have a purpose for using photoshop. So with that said, the other day I was asked by a friend to help restore an old picture. Her mom had removed it from the original frame and during the process a "good" portion of it was ripped off the surface of the photo. Therefore leaving rips and white patch(s) on the bottom of the photo. My job was basically to "fill in the blank". I was "iffy" on posting this since I don't have the permission to but it's nothing a little smiley face can't fix. I am only posting this because I am proud of the work I did fixing this. Here's what I did.

Now I am not a pro, so to speak, there are flaws on the final product so don't kill me for it.

The Original

Step One

Step Two

Step Three (originally this was suppose to be the finished version, but i messed up the shadow on the right leg)

Final Product

This is borderline comical

EDC opens up to CNN about his sex scandal. This is must watch, got me laughing when dude said he "wants to direct and produce movies". Talk about irony impaired. Click HERE for the link to the interview.

Ain't no party like a S__________ party?

Alright so I am not the party type, not too into clubbing unless it's a club that's got good music. But a friend of mine has been bugging me for a minute about this thing called "Shuffle" that goes down once a month down at Revival. The concept of "Shuffle" is real simple, basically they just shuffle through songs from genre to genre, so you can be bumping to some R. Kelly and next thing you know ACDC is on. After watching some of their videos off their youtube channel, I was convinced, because you can see how into it the crowd it, the music is REAL LIVE and you know when 1LoveT.O./Remix fam is in the building it's going to be a real PARTY. So with that said since their last one was yesterday, I am thinking of hitting up the one in June.

Shout to 1LoveT.O. & Remix (Get Give Money, Make Change)

The best coach you've never heard of

Don Meyer is one of the best coaches in basketball, that you've never heard of. To everybody else, he is just a coach. To everybody involved in coaching, he is a legend. As of January 10th, 2009 he passed Bob Knight for the most wins in NCAA Men's Basketball with 903 wins. But his story goes deeper than that....

Brothers

I've been meaning to share this interesting story told to me by my brother's school's basketball coach (whew). One day, after catching one of their games, I went up to introduce myself to my brother's coach. She looked at me like she was happy to meet me, then she proceed to tell me a neat story about my brother and his certain jersey number of choice.

I remember this one day where my brother came home and cried, but I never realized why. Until that afternoon. His coach told me when they were choosing their jersey numbers, my brother wanted to wear "21", but another kid in front of him had another picked that number. While it never clicked in my head initially what's the significant behind "21", I soon realized why he was so upset, because my brother wanted to wear my jersey number. I have to admit, I got a little choked up. I didn't know how to feel, I was happy, proud and a little worried.

For my brother and I because of our age difference (10 years) we don't really do much together and we didn't really connect until this past summer when we spent every moment of everyday with one another since my mom was away. My mom has always told me how much my brother looks up to me, how when he gets something (usually food) he always share with me, how when I am out he'll stay up to wait for me. I never grasp how to be a brother until this summer, I never knew how much he meant to me until this summer and I never knew how much I love him until now.

What worries me is this kid looks up to me, and I haven't exactly been the role model type. It worries me that he'll grow up and do the things that I do. After hearing about the jersey story, I realized how much I am not doing for myself, how much I need to do to better myself, how much I need to do to be a better brother and a better role model. I love this kid to death, I am sure everybody out there who has siblings will know exactly what I am talking about.

I have a problem

For those who know me, know that I love my music and my iPod. Ever since copping it back in '05 I've been carrying it everywhere I go. Since I got the OG 5th Gen iPod (60gb) and knowing how I download music by the gigabyte, it's a surprise I have lasted this long without ever reaching full capacity. I always like to keep things fresh deleting stuff I don't listen to no more (or wondered why I even downloaded in the first place). But recently it's been kind of tough since I am very sentimental, and I hate to part with some of the files. This has also created another problem, I know that one day I will go over that 60gbs (55.68) and I know I will need a new iPod. But I love this one so much I can't come to the fact that I will have to part with it one day. I hate having to throw away things, because I feel like everything has a sentimental value and it's very difficult for me to ditch things. Well I am still alright at the moment floating around 10 gbs, I really don't want to delete anything or get a new iPod (because I'll miss it). I just wanted to rant about this that's all.

Hey Ma I'm on Perez Hilton.com (sort of)

Alright so I mentioned in my previous post about one of my videos from the So Far Gone Tour where Drake give a shout out to (his rumoured) girlfriend Rihanna and how it's been getting mad views well, turns out it was posted on 2Dopeboyz. Well I got a call today from a friend (who is a Perez Hilton addict) that my video is on perezhilton.com. I was like "oh snap, that is pretty cool" although I don't know how I could be excited because it's just a video I took, it's not like I am in the video or even if I am in the video it's not exactly a good thing to be on that site. But it's still cool to find something you're associated with to be on one of the more well known sites out there.

This is a lil OD

So this video that I took from the Drake show of him performing "Every Girl" has been getting hits (views) like crazy. I thought I posted those videos from the show just so I can share the experience. But thanks to the recent news of him hooking up with Rihanna, and the fact that he gave her a shout out (personally I think it was because of her nudie pictures) the view count for that video has sky rocketed. It was at around 1400 last night, then 4400 at around 1pm yesterday. When I left my house last night at 6pm it was already at 14000 views. I just got home and checked again, it's at 55030 (actually count). My email inbox also got spammed with like comment notices for the video as well. It's a little crazy and kind of amazing watching the view count jump like that. Anyways thats way.

UPDATE

I just figured out why I got so many hits http://2dopeboyz.okayplayer.com/2009/05/22/drake-best-i-ever-had-skeemix-f-r-kelly-no-tags/ Shake from 2dopeboyz posted it on they're site, that explains a lot.

Signs

1LOVET.O.

Toronto is one of the most beautiful, diverse city in the world. There's a lot of history, talent, cultures bundled within this city we call home. Toronto is that city, the city that I grew up in, the city of my many firsts, the city I grew up in, the city that I love.

While Toronto offers many new opportunities for us, we haven't always embraced it. Since the new millennium crime rates increased, drugs, and shootings have given our city a bad rep. There's simply not enough love or pride in our city, not enough people embracing thecity for what it is. Toronto is such a beautiful place, with beautiful people, with wonderful opportunities. It's saddens me that it's often overshadowed by the murders, shootings or other unfortunate tragedies.

1LOVET.O. is a site that was created to present Toronto to the world. Serving as an outlet to showcase our home, our city, our Toronto. It's sole purpose is to unify all the talents, culture, arts of our city in one spot for us to see, to embrace, to appreciate.

1LOVET.O. is necessary step to serve as a support for the entire city, striving for greater awareness and unity. It's time Torontonians and the rest of the world to open our eyes to see Toronto for the city it really is.

The powers of GOOGLE!

I got a funny story for y'all. If you haven't noticed, I follow a lot of blogs (some quite religiously) occasionally there are materials on some of those sites I would find to be inspiring. Yesterday I was going to write about this quote from one of the blogs (this one being LostintheWILLderness), I vaguely remember what the quote was but it was something like "it's impossible to find your perfect match..." (the actual quote is "it's impossible to find your perfect match. It's about finding someone with flaws that you can accept") so I googled it. This is what I got.

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Being the quote crazy person I am, I looked up the whole quote so I can in turn quote the person for the quote (say it fast 5 times...jk).

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I ended up finding this.

The rest of this story can be found HERE.
Apparently dude copied and pasted 18 posts word for word and used it as his (smh).

bow down to the power of google!

Bring me back

No lyrics this time, just listen.

I gave Alright, Still a listen last night, I don't know why but I did, and I am glad I did. I just really liked that album. It reminds of so much, you see that's how my brain works. I store a lot of random memories and junk in my head, and the smallest thing reminds me of those memories or thoughts, they all come sprawling out. That's how I can often remember dates so well, you give me something like what I may have done and I can tell you what date it was, because I just remember it. Alright, Still was probably one of those albums I would never listen to. Perhaps it was too pop for me or I had no clue who Lily Allen was. Musically, Lily and I would never have crossed path if it wasn't recommended to me by this girl who I had a thing for at the moment, so I figured "it wouldn't hurt". Now I don't know if there's really such a thing as love at first listen but if there is then you can chalk this up as such, I was in love with the album. Everything from the production, lyrics and musical style was dead on, it just blew me away (word to Mark Ronson). The few months that I listened to it on repeat, coincided with some of my happiest moments. I guess that's why I remember so much just from listening to it, it's takes me to the happy memories, the happy place so to speak. I guess then I wouldn't have problem of letting those feelings go for a minute and just place it on the album. Even if I do forget one day, I would know where those memories are, the memories that I wouldn't trade for anything, the memories of...;)

"The littlest things that take me there I know it sounds lame but its so true"

Food Blogs

I love food blogs, I wish I can say I am a cooking machine and can whip up a meal from scratch as if I was a walking recipe book but I can't. So I take pleasure in reading about food, recipes and etc. The other day I stumbled upon this blog called "The Pioneer Woman" and it hits all the right spots.

Who's The Pioneer Woman?

Meet Ree Drummond aka. The Pioneer Woman. A former city girl turned domestic country wife, who writes about anything from her kids to food to photography. What I am particularly drawn to is her food blog, to say the least her recipes (look) absolutely intoxicating. She takes time to go into every recipe because with each recipe there is a back story, and with it a step by step detailed to the bone description (along with pictures...referring to the look part). It makes you feel like you're literally sitting inside her kicthen watching her cook up these dishes.

Aside from sharing her recipes, she also is enjoys photography and gardening. Both of which has it's own section on The Pioneer Woman.

So do check it out on your spare time, it's a wonderful blog to visit.

AND

she tweets.

A wonderful Message by George Carlin

This is a repost, I posted this up about a month ago and since then it's been something that I read back to myself over and over again. Also because I've gotten feedback from friends of mine who also liked the post. So here it is again.

A wonderful Message by George Carlin

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways , but narrower viewpoints.

We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much , and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things.

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...

Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be a round forever.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.

Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comesfrom deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

28 things for GUYS to keep in mind during a first date

After watching last nights episode of "The Office" where Kevin had a dilemma about whether or not he should ask this girl out on a date and if he does what he should do. Well if you caught it last night then you know what I'm talking about (Boobs) Just kidding.

Anyways I just skimming through the blogosphere and I found this neat little list regarding the "28 steps GUYS need to take on the FIRST DATE!" Why 28, I have no idea but it's pretty funny but interesting read.

This is gonna be a long read so you can bounce if you don't want to read it. DEUCES

1) Make sure you know what she’s wearing so you’re not too overdressed cuz you’ll make her feel bad, and you dont wanna be underdressed cuz ull make her look bad.

2) Brush your teeth and make sure u look clean and smell fresh

3) “Hey, I just wanted you to know Im outside, but dont rush. Imma just listen to some music in the car.” Dont rush her to be ready as soon as you’re there. Let her take her time and come out when she’s comfortable, Im sure she’s aware of the time.

4) When she get out the front door, get outta your car too.

5) Walk up to her and give her a hug and a compliment, but dont be too lame, point out something that specific. ” I love your shoes/earrings/ ur hair.” Dont be so cliche to just say you look good.

6) If her body is righteous and her booty looks wicked in them pants, or her boobs are looking great, try not to stare! lmao. like fuck, dont pull a move like…’dayum, cant wait to get back here tonight!’ lmao

7) Open the car door for her.

Close the car door for her…lol…I know that sounds obvious but most people dont close the door and just walk off after they open it.

9) Dont drive off until she buckles up, let her know that her safety is your concern.

10) Ask her if shes cold or hot, heat or a/c?

11) Make sure you have suitable music, if its your first date, you might not wanna play any k-ci and jojo, r.kelly, or plies! lol

12) Dont try to be all Super Dave and drive like a lunatic, drive like that on your own. Die by yourself! lol

13) Hopefully, the location for the date is a social place. A movie is good, as long as you have coffee/tea/ dinner before or after. A date at your house all alone doesnt give a good impression and neither does just a movie date…cuz you cant talk at the movies. Learn about the person you’re with. Do something fun and beyond the average…dont be so typical, but dont be too extra either. Go to the zoo, go to a museum, art gallery, jazz bar, an exhibit of sorts, a walk in a special park, go bowling, mini golfing etc. You wanna stand out from all the guys who date her. Chances are, if you’re taking her out, she’s probably special to you. Special ppl deserve special treatment. Im sure the last guy already took her to the movies…so right now, you’re every other guy. Think about it.

14) Always make sure that she’s not hungry or thirsty, thats shes also not too hot or cold. Let her know you care for her comfort.

15) Dont ask too many closed ended questions, or too many personal questions. Dont talk about too many personal things of ur own or pry about her business. Step by step. Like I said, comfort first.

16) Dont start talking about sex or freaky stuff either. If she’s really the special woman you think she is, it means she prolly has a lot of dudes hollering. Dont be one of the dudes that juss thinks shes hot with no personality or character. She doesnt wanna feel like all you want to do is just bang her. Respect the woman and value her fully. Besides, once the topic of sex kicks in, how do you know you really like her? Cuz now sex plays a factor into your feelings and actions. How you know you like a woman is by how long you’re willing to go on being good friends without trying to pull a move. Its that you get along on a personal level and you guys speak at a good capacity and pace. Trust me when I say this, do not talk about sex! Dont fit in, stand out!

She prolly has a lot of dudes trying to sleep with her and ask her those stupid questions, be the guy who doesnt. Refresh her faith in men! Dont be a fuckin dog. lol. Not all of us think with our dicks…So dont reinforce the stereotypes. She probably has invested a lot of time in creating such a beautiful person (intentionally or not), so make note of that. Take that in, and show her you appreciate how she has respected her mind, her roots, her values, her culture, her body. She’s not just a piece of meat. lol

17) Try to talk about ideas and deep, intellectual or philosophical things. Try not to gossip or pull to many hater comments. lol…like “omg! i was blah blah yesterday, and this chick was wearing ray tay. so wack.” lol. Its cool for a second, but…I dunno, if she’s the an intellectual, educated or the deep thought type, get a piece of her mind. Stimulate her senses. Personally, I love that stuff. Smart women are the hottest thing in the world. As long as she isnt crazy opinionated and thinks the whole world is gonna end, ppl are psycho, everyones retarded and she insists you believe it too…if shes crazy, end the date early by msging ur boy, or ur girl and telling her to call you saying its an emergency and get the fuck outta there! lose the chick too! lol (im playing…sorta)

18) Be a gentlemen and pay for her, hopefully she’ll insist to pay (I hate it when women never offer to pay, I never let them pay, but I hate when they never insist). If she pays for dinner because she feels bad and really wants equality (which is fuckin awesome), you better pay for the movie, or the admission to wherever the hell you’re going next. lol

19) Try not to pick up the phone and have a full out conversation or bb or heavily text anyone while ur out with her. Let her know she has your undivided attention.

20) Dont play the music too loud in the car that she cant talk to you.

21) At the end of the night be sure to thank her for her company and time. Let her know that you appreciated it and maybe juss say thanks for whatever she did during the date.

22) Get out and open her car door, hold her hand while she’s getting out.

23) Let go of her hand after she gets out! Dont be all weirdo and desperate and shit! lol. Dont act all super confident and think that you gonna score and shit.

24) Walk her to her front door, unless her dad is a psycho and will shoot ur fuckin brains out. Then open the door for her, hug her quicktimes and get the hell back inside and gun it until you cant see her house in the rear mirrors no more.

25) If her daddy aint psycho, then walk her to her door. And juss hug her. Dont force a kiss!!! In fact, dont even do it at all!!! Its better that way, even if she invites you in, dont go! Its not that you’re playing hard to get, but its to let her know, I respect you, and this is not what I had planned. I want to let you know I adore your mind and personality and I dont want us to regret anything so soon. Easy come, easy go right. You want to move in stages and increments. You want things to look forward to. Today a hug, tmr you hold hands, the next you kiss, the next you spend alone time in a more private setting, the next you cuddle, then maybe at the point you guys can…boom shaka laka. lol. Try to make it fairy tale like. You want to give her a story she can call her girls and brag about. “OMG! He is so chivalrous. He didnt even come in when I asked him too. And he didnt try to kiss me or nothing.”

Trust me! Be a winner! lol

Just hug her and smile, and in your most sincerest voice…”Thank you so much for spending the evening with me.” As lame as that sounds, its true. I mean…understand, a lot of things in life are lame, especially the truth. Sometimes being lame is a lot better than then trying to dress things up and trying to sound smooth and suave. Somethings are so real, it has to stay raw. Just say it how you feel it. Thats how you know its real sometimes…by how lame it is. You say cool things to sound slick, and you say lame things cuz its true…you say stupid things cuz ur an idiot. So just dont say anything stupid. I dont have an example of anything stupid…lol

26) This ones for ladies, please, say something nice too beyond juss thank you. We like to feel appreciated too, especially after all the hardwork that was put in to make you feel like a princess. And please ask us to give you a call or text, or bb you when we get home so you know we’re home safe. It means more than you know.

27) Back to the fellas, drive away only after she goes inside the house. When you get back in the car, look back one last time in case she waves. Wave back, dont be all gangsta and drive away doing a fuckin burnout blasting “So Far Gone” down her street.

28) And dudes when you get home, do msg her back and tell her that you’re home safe, tell her you had a wonderful evening once again. It doesnt hurt to tell them that. Tell them to sleep well and that you hope to see them soon.

Of course this really only apply to people who have found someone special and not just any regular girl. If you want a real woman, you gotta treat her right. Good things don't come easy, so you’re gonna have to put in work. Remember then time and effort that you put into a woman, determines their value. Just like an education or a good paying job. You had to work for that shit. Sometimes, you’ll just be blessed with a good girl and everything works out really fast…it happens, but it's rare. So this is what we all need to learn.