Your time is limited


"No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be. Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition." - Steve Job

Some afternoon youtube reel


LOL Patrick Chewing


Pierce ignored kid in LeBron Jersey

I love CSI

...especially this time of the year, when the writes get on their grind and cook up some good stories. It all began last week with the Taylor Swift episode on CSI, then CSI Miami's insanely twisted episode on Monday and finally last nights' episode of CSI New York was even better.

It was good in a different way, for those who watched it, the beginning was nuts but what made the episode was the ending.




For those who haven't been following their developing relationship on the show. They've been on off for a bit now. Only to be brought back together by Lindsay's pregnancy. Danny had proposed once before but Lindsay said no because she told him they he was doing it for the wrong reason and that if they were going to do this one day, it had to be for them. Well fast forward to last night when Danny tells Mac that he is scared to disappoint Lindsay and not being being able to be good father for their baby.

At the end, Danny proposes again.

It's a very touching moment, especially for me whom have watched every single friggen episode to date and I love these TV moments.

The simple reason why Raptors are not winning games




First of all, this is a video from a late game last night between the Portland Trailblazers and Los Angeles Lakers. It`s a video of the altercation as a result of a unfortunate foul by Lakers forward Trevor Ariza on Rudy Fernandez on the Blazers. Aside from the actual intent of the foul (it`s clear that Ariza went for the block but instead caught Rudy`s head...it`s just that the fall made it look a lot worst) pay close attention to the aftermath of the foul. Now sometimes an altercation between players is deemed as inappropriate. But at the same time, if I was the coach I`d like my players to protect and stand up for one another, through anything whether it`s off the court or incidents like this. Some can argue that these altercations do nothing but escalate the event and are sometimes just excuses for players to blow off some steam. But this is not just "any" altercation, just players standing up for the teamates of their respective team. The only things exchanged are just words, not punches. To me it showed me that the Blazers are a more mature team than they look (youngest team in the NBA and the fact that they didn't escalate the event buy throwing punches), they also showed me that the are a close nitted team, because why else would you race down the whole court just to tell the perpatrator how many "F" words you can say in about a minute. Whoever gets fined for this altercation, it was well worth it in my opinion.

Well back on topic, how does this have anything to do with the Raptors? Simple, ever since Charles Oakley left Toronto (with the exception of maybe Antonio Davis) all the Raptor players since are lack of a better term, pussies.

Exhibit A: TJ Ford injury at Atlanta on Dec 11th, 2007.




The video says a lot, same time of incident it was a bang bang play exactly like the one last night. Yet this one the Raptor players stood around looking confused and not sure what or how to react. The only person who "reacted" was the coach himself who went all the way to the other bench to confront Mike Woodson (Hawks' coach). Now what they did was technically right, settle down and do not escalate the incident. But come on really, you're in the middle of a game and you just watched your teammate get clocked and it doesn't make you tick. Or are you telling me that in a split second, you KNEW that the foul was not intentional so you just forget about it. That tells me that 1) this team is not very close, 2) they don't have a leader to stand up for the team (with the exception of the coach).

Exhibit B: Jose Calderon get's an elbow from Anthony Johnson on January 18th, 2008




Same deal here, no body reacts to the situation, especially Calderon who just got nailed with an elbow. Now he may have flopped on the play but still nothing?! From what I understand this incident stemmed from an early play where these two got tangled up and this elbow was a retaliation for it. Still I am baffled at the fact that the players just stood by and did not at least showed some sign of acknowledgment to the incident.

Exhibit C: Stromile Swift flagrant foul on Jamario Moon on November 21st, 2007

No video here, but from what I recall this one was actually intentional. Jamario was going a dunk on the fast break and Stromile made no play for the ball and pushed Jamario to the ground thus resulting in a flagrant foul. Now if I remember correctly Chris Bosh was the first one down to the court, he simply ran by Stromile and just gave Jamario the quick glance to see if he's okay. Although Jamario was not hurt but at the speed that he was going it was surprise he wasn't hurt. But once again nobody responded.

So with all the talk about Raptors not being mentally tough or not physical enough to win games, well let's put it this way, they don't have anybody whose got a tough bone in their bodies. This team was built to put up points, not to play defense. So my question is why are people so angry about them not being able to defend. They overpaid a guy like Kapono to come in to shoot threes instead of overpaying a guy to come in to play defend (Jermaine O'Neal doesn't count because he is lazy and only plays decent defense when he felt like it). They need some guy in their lineup that isn't afraid of contact or has at least some sort of leadership qualities to take a stand. Right now they got a roster full of clean cut guys, what they need is to drop this whole act and maybe pick up a real leader this off season. Maybe like a Ron Artest, who comes with baggage and a track record but you know when he is on your side, he's got your back. You won't mix him up as a fake tough guy, because we've all witness how real he keeps it at.

It's the REMIX baby

Ok well it's really not, but over the last week or so I got a chance to learn about this Arts/Culture program in Toronto and what it does to help make in difference for the youths in Toronto.



Here's a little excerpt I pulled from the Remix Project website:

The Remix Project is a youth program that acts as an arts and cultural incubator in Toronto, Canada, North America’s cultural capital. Young people aspiring to start careers in the urban arts sector drive the program by developing personal six month plans for success. We help these entrepreneurs through:

• A knowledgeable and supportive staff team, ready to guide youth through their career choices and six-month plans.

• A 4,800 sq. ft. facility, with a full recording studio, business development centre, visual art lab, video editing suite & more.

• A range of mentors, who are relevant industry professionals work one on one with young people to provide guidance and feedback in greater detail.

• Regular workshops that bring in industry professionals to talk about their experiences, and give practical steps to maintaining a successful career.

For more info. head over to theremixproject.ca to find out more about the program and read the people that they have helped over the years.

There's tons of info on this wonderful little program here in Toronto and it has made differences in a lot of peoples lives. So I am just trying to help spread the word. Another thing is that as many of you should know, our Prime Minister Stephen Harper and his government has already cut about 45 million dollars in funding from the Arts and Cultural programs. With that said a lot of these great Arts and Cultural programs like Remix may not exist much longer because of the cuts. So please please please, help spread the word. If you know about Remix, help spread the word, if you know about other programs out there, also help spread the word. These programs do so much to reach out to the youths in our communities and they help make significant differences in their lives. With the way our communities are right now, things have been progressively getting worst, from the drugs, the shootings. There's are a lot of young people out there who needs help and guidance. Remix and other wonderful programs does exactly that so once again please help spread the word. Every little bit helps. Thanks.

Indestructible

So here I am, sitting in front of my computer late at night. What am I doing? Basically the same thing as every night...nothing until I bore myself to bed. Anyways, I was watching some old school Nardwuar interviews.

If you don't know who Nardwuar is...the GTFO!

As I was saying, when I stopped watching, cranked up the iPod to some old Rancid tunes. Then I got this idea about Rancid and the way how Nardwuar always finds connection to things. Not following?? It's okay...I'll show ya.

One of my favourite bands to listen to right now is...
EAGLES OF DEATH METAL

and

one half of EoDM is...
JOSH HOMMES

who is married to...
BRODY DALLE

who was married to...
TIM ARMSTRONG

of...
RANCID

and here's a little reversal

Sometime after Tim and Brody finalized their divorce, word on the street was Brody cheated on Tim with Josh. Which resulted in this following masterpiece.

Don't worry about me, I'm gonna make it alright
Got my enemies crossed out in my sight
I take a bad situation gonna make it right
In the shadows of darkness I stand in the light

You see it's our style to keep it true
I've had a bad year, a lot to go through
I've been knocked out, beat down, black and blue
She's not the one coming back for you
She's not the one coming back for you

If I fall back down, you're gonna help me back up again
If I fall back down, you're gonna be my friend

It takes disaster to learn a lesson
You're gonna make it through the darkest night
Some people betray one and cause treason
We're gonna make everything alright

Well the worst of times, now, they don't phase me
Even if I look and act really crazy
I went way down, she betrayed me
Now my vision is no longer hazy

I'm very lucky to have my crew
They stood by me when she flew
I've been knocked out, beat down, black and blue
She's not the one coming back for you
She's not the one coming back for you

If I fall back down, you're gonna help me back up again
If I fall back down, you're gonna be my friend

This song was written by Tim after his divorce from Brody, which is technically a big Fuck You to Brody and Josh. Also about friendship and the support he had with him through the whole ordeal. It's a really catchy track and by far my favourite Rancid track. This was one of those songs that I could not stop listening to back in the day. Like way way back in High School. There was this one year where to cut it short, was very shitty year for me and this song just stuck. The message was very clear, it made me realize who my real friends were and which were cancers that I needed to cut off from my life. This was a life saver...so I guess thank you for three of my favourite musicians in this world to get in this crazy love triangle, which resulted in this song!

"Hey! my pussy is hanging out!"



ROFL

Really wannabe, really wannabe, really wanna be in LA



My favourite band to listen to at the moment and this video just kills me.

Eagles of Death Metal y'all

good night...or good morning ughh

Can't sleep...so I'll write

The other day a friend of my spoke to me about her life plans, you know marriage, parenthood and career etc etc. Long story short, she was having "mid....something" crisis. Mainly she was worried about not being able to find a good mate who is right for her, getting married and ultimately having children of her own.

Then it got me to think about my own plans. To be honest I used to believe in the same thing as my friend (except I would have a wife instead of a husband of course). I used to believe that if two people were truly loved one another, that nothing else would matter.

To be blunt, maybe this is on me but I feel like I've yet to be in a relationship where I feel that the girl I am with felt the same way that I do for her.

Officially up until last summer I was in a relationship with this girl that I "absolutely adore". The whole experience was surreal, she was the first that I can say I really tried with. We were together for almost 2 years, and it was probably the happiest/challenging 2 years of my life.

Neither of us really knew what a relationship between us would mean. "Where will this lead us?" "Will we fall in love?" "What if things don't work out?". For me she meant "a lot", she meant warm fuzzy feeling in stomach, she meant that I was miserable when we were apart and happy when we were together. I wanted to be everything that I could for her. I wanted to finish school get a respectable job with good money so one day maybe she'll see that I will be a suitable mate for her. That she'll see me more than just the boyfriend type and that she can see herself spending the rest of her life with me. I won't front I honestly had thought about it a little bit.

But since then some things have happened and we drifted apart a little bit (no pun intended). It's true, my feelings for her has changed, instead of thinking that she may be the one for me I'd often think about whether I will ever find someone else, whom I will feel the same way that I felt for her.

To this day I still see her as more than a friend (maybe even more than a friend). I would often tell myself to ease up and let go. I don't want to be stuck in the middle of something or worst be in her way. It's bad enough that one of us can't let go or move on than have both of us dwell on what could have been.

So when she told me about how she was worried about her future, whether she will find someone whom she can spend the rest of her life with.

I looked at her and told her that everything was going to be alright, that she was going to find "someone" one day who will love her to the fullest and he will make all of her dreams come true.

It's funny sometimes when life throws these curve ball moments at you.


You think
I'm so full of it , full of it
But I think I'm just fed up baby
You think I can be so arrogant, Arrogant
But I'm just tryna get keep my head up Baby
You think I procrastinate baby
But I think I'm taking my time
You think you need to leave
But I think I disagree but

If you believe you'll do best without me
I'll let it go girl, It's over
But before we say good bye
Let's give it a try
If you leave, then baby I'll leave
I'll let it go girl, It's over
But I have no doubt
We can work it out

Yeah
I think you're so full of it, full of it
You just don't know when to let up Baby
I think you're so arrogant, arrogant
that you think you're so much better baby
That I think It ain't healthy for me to judge you by your flaws & that's why I
know I could criticize , but I put that aside
To focus on you & I

but If you believe you'll do best without me
Then I'll let it go boy, It's over
But before we say goodbye
Let's give it a try
If you leave, then baby I'll leave
I'll let it go boy, it's over
But I have no doubt
We can work it out
Yeah

Now if you wanna go
Baby then I'll let you go
& even though I'm tryna hold on
I can't if you don't

now if you leave me, you're gonna miss me
& I'm not saying that Ill be here waiting

Since we here right now (instead of just walking out)
Lets work to reach the point that I know we can be

But if you believe, You'll do best without me
I'll let you go
It's over
but before we say
Let's give it a try
If you leave, then baby I'll leave
I'll Let it go, its over
I have no doubt
we can work it out

If you believe, you'll do best without me
I'll let it go girl, it's over
Before we say goodbye
Let's give it a try
If you leave, then baby I'll leave

Your sex is on fire

Funny article out of Memphis Commercial Appeal which talks about the recent shooting slump Maric Jaric has been in.

"He isn't distracted. That's the first thing Marko Jaric points out whenever his ongoing shooting slump is mentioned. Jaric isn't frustrated by the keen interest in his personal life being linked to a sudden downturn in his professional performance. The Grizzlies' backup point guard insists he's matured. If anything, Jaric is a little confused about one aspect of him missing his last 21 field goal attempts. It's been six straight games combined with a final shot Feb. 11 at Philadelphia since Jaric sank a basket. Part of the 6-7 veteran's wonder comes from why the drought is newsworthy. 'If I go 0-for-25 it's not going to bother me,' Jaric said. 'I'm out there playing and trying to help us win. I know I can play ... not scoring any points.'"

Well according to the article, Marco Jaric has gone 6 straight games without a field goal and is 0 for 21 in that span. Now for a guy who plays 10 to 15 minutes a night and averages like 4 to 5 shots a game, one must wonder "how the hell do you miss that many shots".

Easy explanation, as you've all probably know by now, Mr. Jaric here recently close the deal with the hottie above (Adriana Lima). Since the formerly Miss Lima claims that she is was a virgin. Assuming with all 27 years of sexual energy that she's stored up, she must of gave Marco the time of his life that night.

So besides the hilarity from the fact that Marco plays like he had the life sucked out of him (not sure if the pun is intended or not) and is in a major slump. Let's not get too down on the man, he's gets to go all up that THIS, it's a surprise he can still play let alone hit a shot.